The power of a compliment

“Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” - Proverbs 16:24

Have you ever thought something favorable about someone but kept your thoughts to yourself? Most of us have done so at one time or another in our lives. 

We may think that complimenting our kids too much may grow their egos a bit out of proportion. Or perhaps we feel that bestowing too many compliments upon our wife may foster an annoying habit of expectation. 

Or maybe we just find it hard to express what’s in our hearts in a way that doesn’t feel awkward, uncomfortable, or too touchy-feely for us. Maybe we even feel vulnerable to pain or rejection when we open up and share our true feelings.

 But a good rule of thumb when it comes to affirming the people in your life is, “JUST SAY IT!”

Don’t keep quiet. Compliments that are genuine and come from the heart not only foster connection and deep bonding but affirm that you see the people in your life for who they are. 

A compliment can help someone see things they don’t see in themselves, name what’s true about them in the face of lies, and even inspire them to a higher standard. 

To be seen and known is life-giving. To be affirmed for who you are is deeply encouraging to every person. Affirmation may be the greatest gift you can give someone you care about. Give it to them today!

What is it that might be keeping you from complimenting others? 

Who can you affirm today?